Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Maggie's Heart

Maggie is a very special friend of mine. She's eight years old, and I have known her for her entire life.  More importantly, she has one of the most precious hearts of anyone I know...

Maggie has always had a very generous spirit.  She loves others through giving with a maturity way beyond her years.  A few weeks ago when we were visiting, she gave me a beautiful, jewelry holder that she has made herself out of clay and then painted.  She wanted me to have it and gave it to me--just like that! At our traditional Easter egg hunt, Mags not only would help her little sister find eggs, but she also would give up eggs for herself and point them out to her older sister! 

However, Maggie's most recent gift touched my heart in a very special way.   Maggie knows that I am raising money to go to Mexico, and she recently gave me $5 to help the children there.  On her own initiative, she told her mom that she wanted to give me all the money she'd received from the tooth fairy.  When you are eight, $5 is an incredible amount of money, too!  Yet Maggie's generous heart led her to give it to help the children in Mexico.  

When I think about Mags' heart, I am so touched by her generous spirit and convicted of my own selfishness. I am also reminded of the widow who gave all she had and how Jesus praised her for her "small, but big" gift.  I thank God for both Maggie and her priceless gift, and I can't wait to tell a child in Mexico how a child in America loved her and wanted to help her.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Commercials-Effective or Entertaining?

I'm not a big TV person.  I grew up in a home where TV was not a central part of our lives, and we didn't even have cable for most of my childhood.  When we did watch TV, we watched PBS (Square One was my favorite PBS show) and Saturday morning shows (Hang Time, Saved by the Bell, and cartoon Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles with my little brother).   Of course as I got older, I made my own choices about TV and became a devoted fan of my one or two regular shows and anyone who knows me well, knows that I love to discuss and analyze those with fellow fans. :) 

However, even more than TV not being a big part of our lives, commercials were almost absent from them.  Both of my parents practically have a conniption if you don't immediately press mute when the commercials come on.  Since my TV viewing time is still pretty limited, I only see a few commercials.  Lately though, I started thinking about commercials--are they effective or merely entertaining?  I recently (out of the kindness of my heart) took pity on a telephone surveyor and answered a few of his questions.  He kept asking me which phone or cable commercials and companies popped in my head first, and I drew a blank nearly every time.  I'm sure that commercials do subtly influence me, but being the independent, strong-willed person I am, I don't think that really have that much of an effect on me.  

Here are two examples from my current favorite commercials:  There is an ad for a cell phone company where the dad travels around the world for business, each time sending a picture to his wife and daughter of his daughter's favorite stuffed animal.  At the end, the picture is of the stuffed animal in front of the family's house.  The little girl rushes out to see her daddy, and it's sweet, cheesy, and adorable.  However, I don't remember the name of the company nor I am likely to switch my cell phone provider.  It did make me slightly desire a camera phone but not enough to pay the extra bucks for it.  Example 2-The high-maintenance bride who wants a cake with a pattern that matches her veil but a color that matches the bridesmaids' dresses, and the accommodating Publix bakery worker who has whipped up a sample before the bride even gets off her cell phone.  (My favorite part of this commercial is when she comes back to the bakery to show the wedding photos to the worker.)  Once again, a heartfelt commercial I connected with and enjoyed.  Did it change me though? Not at all.  I am already an extremely loyal Publix shopper so much so they should actually pay me for all the free PR work I did for them when they were first starting in Birmingham.  This commercial simply affirms what I already believe about "shopping being a pleasure" there.  If Bruno's did a similar commercial, would I shop there?  Absolutely not.  

So that is my diatribe on commercials.  Are commercials effective or just entertaining?  You be the judge.  It's clear though that at least I like to think that they are not influencing my decisions.  Lastly, it also seems clear that I am a sucker for sentimental commercials...just like Meg Ryan and Rosie O'Donnell in Sleepless in Seattle!